Do this now
- Talk to an adult you trust.
- Do not send more.
- Do not pay.
What you can do
- Ask an adult to help you report the sharing on the platform.
- Note the username, platform and time, and keep threatening messages. Do not forward intimate images. Ask specialist support or the police how to preserve evidence if the messages contain intimate images.
- Ask a local specialist support service for help. SletDet provides guidance in Denmark; the linked guide is in Danish.
- Parent Coach can later help an adult prepare a follow-up conversation.
Avoid
- Listen first, without blaming or shaming your child.
- Do not forward private messages, intimate images or explicit screenshots.
- No app can protect against everything. Do not promise that it can.
For parents
- Make clear that your child can get help even if they have broken an agreement.
- Ask what happened without pushing for every detail.
- Help end contact if needed and find someone you can ask for advice.